I had no idea that wasps attacked bees. I guess I did know wasps were pretty attack-y, so I shouldn't be surprised...

Yes: there are a lot of people out there who really do have big hearts, not even out of cultivating big-heartedness, just because that's the way they've grown up, that's their nature.(Not that it's bad to cultivate big-heartedness! That's good too.) And it's in individual encounters that we live our lives (even though policies and large-scale things affect the situation we're living them in).