The Brain in Love

[smokingboot]

I recently linked to an article on certain mystical aspects of love (find via the tag at the bottom of this post)http://www.ted.com/index.php/talks/helen_fisher_studies_the_brain_in_love.html is a different take on the phenomenon, Helen Fisher's TED lecture specifically considering what happens in the brain in love.

It is a beautiful talk and I find it very interesting though self evident in parts: You fall in love, the brain starts producing lots of dopamine; well I could honestly have guessed that. What I want to know is, does the brain start producing dopamine because I see The One, or do I decide he's The One because I meet him at a time when my brain is producing lots of dopamine? And there is a gentle conformity to stereotypes* which I am not sure about, though she has the grace to accept that these may have more to do with the evolution of Nurture rather than Nature. It is a very graceful passionate lecture with brilliant touches about rejection, long term love, and love in nature.

Something I find interesting is the way both the earlier article and the lecture rely heavily upon poetry to express the essence of love.

The time may well come when jfs heartily regrets introducing me to TED!

Edited to add
* Helen speaks of four different 'types' of personality, the Dopamine, Serotonin, Estrogen and Testosterone types. I have just tried the test on the website she mentions (http://www.chemistry.com/) she mentions in her talk, and to a certain extent, it's old wine in new bottles. It turns out that I am a negotiator (Estrogen)/Explorer (Dopamine) type. OK, why am I estrogen? Empathy is the key identifier for estrogen types in the test, for no stronger reason than that women = estrogen and are traditionally considered to be empathic...or maybe I have missed something. Now, the first thing we establish before the test starts is that I am a straight female. So was it the test results that made me Estrogen, or was that extrapolated from this originating info? Hmm...Not sure about this. But still a fascinating talk.

Comments

[cyanidemigraine.livejournal.com]

i got Your major personality type = Negotiator
Your minor personality type = Explorer

and no mention of estrogen anywhere, which presumably is because im a manly man and they suspect id get upset?

there wasnt an option for bisexual people though, maybe if id put in "man seeking man"it would think i was less threatened by calling me estrogeny?

i put in i was from beverly hills, as its a zip code i know off by heart *grins*

[smokingboot.livejournal.com]

Mine like yours...she doesn't talk about the four brain chemical = four basic types much here, and I'm probably doing her a massive disservice by over-simplifying (I think the webpage is something she was consulted on, rather than her baby) but on her blog she does. It's something like Explorer = dopamine, Negotiator = estrogen, Builder = Serotonin, Director = Testosterone, but I might have got the last two mixed up. I hope so or it really is trite!

Beverley Hills...I so want to know why you know the zip code!

[cyanidemigraine.livejournal.com]

from the TV series "beverly hills 90210"

:)