Thank you, I do feel a lot better now.

I think there is a generation of women who wore the wedding dress their mothers bought them and never got the chance to apply their own preferences. Mum wasn't one of those, she was a complete diva when it comes to such things! But she too had the blingthing - she always wanted me to wear a La Croix thing encrusted with jewels. Now she's toned things down, it's all rather more Downton. I have gone for neither!