Total honesty

And therefore, not very nice.

It's been on my mind for some time, and even as I write it, I wonder if I should leave it for later. I've got a lot of pregnant friends now, and I congratulate them with all my heart. So please, if you are one of those friends, understand this post is not aimed at you, at criticism of you personally, or disrespect for your decisions. It is an examination of my own feelings, and an attempt not to be hypocritical. Be warned, I do use the word 'You' generically behind this cut.

( Potentially and if so, unintentionally offensive )